Curing vexation is compassionate to the selfDiscipline, curing, subduing is not conflict with compassion. Curing vexation is compassionate to the self. When we treat ourselves like this, we can also treat others in the same way. For example, when facing the vexation of others again, on the one hand, because of compassion, we are no longer so easy to be provoked, no hatred and complaint anymore, so that we can also avoid entanglement; on the other hand, because we have the ability to distinguish and understand right and wrong, we also begin to be courageous to refuse some unreasonable requirements. Compassion does not mean that there is always a need to be answered, or there is always a gentle smile, which is not necessarily real compassion.
